Welcome! Click any of the 5 buttons above to begin.
Entrées - Entries
Profil - Profile
Amis - Friends
Parlez - Tagboard/Discussion Space
Mémoires - Memories/Archives
Stick around if you have some time and listen to some awesome songs!
Subscribe to: Posts (Atom)
Quite simply, being a nice guys is not as gratifying as one can imagine, and it is nowhere like what Hollywood portrays to it. Usually, we nice guys generally stop whatever we're doing to go and help out our friend, sometimes more than friends, and solve whatever troubles them to tears. It might require beating the shit out of someone, or it might just mean sitting there and letting them cry on our shoulder. Whatever gets the job done, we'll do it.
There comes a point in time, though, that we have to draw the line. Yet, as a nice guy it's almost too hard to draw the line, let alone pick up the stick to draw it in the sand. As content as we seem, we are actually not happy at all on the inside; in fact, we're almost torn between I don't wanna fuck up what we have right now and well... I kind of like you. It's an internal struggle that almost never goes away, and doesn't have any easy remedy... except for that right one that can see through the shroud of niceness and take us for what we really are: genuine, caring nice guys.
Ladies, get the hint. Forget the jerks, go with the nice guy. It's better for you in the long run.
Labels: caring, Girl, nice guy, sensative, troubled
I am currently a graduate student studying education and will update my thoughts and experiences here periodically. Though the content of my blog may not always be the most intellectually stimulating, I believe that there is always a lesson to be learned from my posts, even if it's just a nonsensical story. I find poetry in ordinary life experiences and capture what memories I can through my camera's lens. At the end of the day I'm just another regular guy who needs to write his thoughts somewhere, and I hope you get some enjoyment out of my musings.
All of the best,
BK
Flo Y.
Andrew J.
Justin Y.
David H.
Lawrence S.
Richie P.
Connie C.
Davic C.
Karla Q.
Uyen L.
Shannon Y.
Bou P.
Steph L.
Nah L.
Katie T.
Jenny N.
Liz N.
Trinh H.
Sara K.
Ashlie M.
January 2009 February 2009 March 2009 May 2009 June 2009 July 2009 August 2009 September 2009 October 2009 November 2009 January 2010 May 2010 June 2010 July 2010 August 2010 November 2010 February 2011 May 2011 October 2011 January 2012 March 2012 September 2013 September 2014